Monday, March 31, 2008

How to Have Sex Appeal


How to Have Sex Appeal


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When you see someone that is very social and strangely seductive, maybe they are not that good looking, but they have something that makes you feel attracted and jealous of them. Yeah, that's sex appeal. Want some? Read on!

Steps


  1. Care and love your looks. It is good to look nice, it can really make you feel better about yourself. Try to try something new, like a new haircut or new wardrobe. Do something new on your looks, but you have to feel beautiful and find yourself pretty.
  2. Don't be afraid to approach people. Being shy won't help you anyway. If you want to meet new people, it's easy when you make the first move. Go up to them and have a talk, but be enthusiastic and real, and please, wipe off all your awkwardness and insecurities, and express yourself freely.
  3. Have a sense of style. It is important to know what is hot and what's not but don't over do it. Remember, fashion is about wearing only what flatters you, since then you will feel comfortable and act more naturally.
  4. Connect with people. Look at strangers and make eye contact with them and smile easily. Greet them. It will give you more confidence, besides, doing it is a way of connection that will make it easier to get to meet people.
  5. Be sure of your qualities. Being confident in yourself, not only in your looks, but also in your own person, is always important. When you like yourself and you are sure that your qualities are cool, then you will be able to let them be noticed and don't hide them. Tell yourself that you're beautiful and think of why people should like you for you.
  6. Always have a good sense of humour. Don't take things too seriously, try to smile easily and laugh more often. Even if you don't feel your best, try to think of positive things more often.
  7. "Pretty is as pretty does" Be the person you believe yourself to be on the inside. Attractiveness is not just about physical qualities. Charisma and magnetism and confidence are far more attractive than a stereotypically *Beautiful person with a nasty attitude.
  8. Work your eyes. You can flirt just by looking at a boy with eye contact. Doing so is almost like magic- Playfully batter your lashes, stay wide-eyed and when he says something that should generate a reaction or response, simply open your eyes even wider. This is giving the message "I am interested and listening. You fascinate me". Which is a key to flirting.


Tips


  • Confidence is the most important - it can give you the necessary presence, charm, charisma and sex appeal you want.
  • Meet new people for fun! Don't force yourself to appear sexy or something, just have a good time and don't hide your natural sex appeal.
  • Always keep a positive attitude and smile. Sexy people usually smile often.
  • Having a nice glow / tan always helps your sex appeal, it will also boost your confidence.
  • Stand tall and be observant if you find someone that may have been glancing your direction, walk over and start a conversation. *The best line to use is "Hi my name is (state your name clearly and confidently) and how are you?"
  • Most importantly to top it off.....don't try to be someone you're not..Be yourself


Warnings


  • Take an honest/objective look at yourself in the mirror before you step out. If you doubt that what you see is the image you are trying to portray, CHANGE. Clothes that make you look as if you needed a smaller/bigger size, clothes that do not accent the positive and downplay the negative are not the best choice. Don't buy into a fad if it does not suit your body or personality.
  • Be yourself. There is someone out there that will love you exactly the way you are.
  • Careful about the tanning. Sun exposure can cause skin cancer.




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